Our expert says:
Why have you chosen to form a relationship with such a lady ? It sounds as though each of you have different, perhaps incompatible personalities, and very different styles of relating and living. Its quite common for someone like her who obviously needs counselling through which to deal with whatever is troubling her, to fear appearing weak and to reject the counselling they need --- without realizing that its the refusal to get counselling which IS weak, and appears weak.
If she refuses to seek the inividual counselling she clearly needs, and will presumably also reject joint relationship counselling, the odds are very much against this relationship becoming happy and strong.
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