Our expert says:
I don't think you can "GET" anyone to trust you, except by being trustworthy over quite a long period. If the pair of you really want to be together but recognize that there are potential problems, why not see a couples counsellor together and see if these issues can be sorted out ? If his first wife walked out on him, its surely understandable, especially after what happened between you last time, that he would be sensitive about this possibility
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