Our expert says:
tasha, ever heard of a self-fulfilling prophesy ? If you start with the belief that ALL men are bad ( not some men are bad, which is obviously true --- some women, some cats, and some fish, are bad ) you may become inclined to prove yourself right --- so that if a many isn't bad enough to confirm what you believe as a prejudice ( pre-judging ) --- well, you MAKE him bad by needling him, or when he says good things and does good things, you decide that these must be false and that he must actually be bad, even if it isnt obvious.
Stories are stories, and some people have their own motives for telling you things, whether true or not.
Why did you decide that all men are bad ? Presumably you didn't decide this out of the blue, but arising from previous bad experiences ? Maybe you';re over-generalising, from previous experiences to this one ?
Volcano summarises it well, how contradictory your story is --- you dont love him like before, but you love him so much, all men are bad --- except maybe this one ?
Try seeing a counsellor, because you sound clever and sensitive enough to be able to work this all out really well.
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