Our expert says:
Its not necessarily at all in the child's best interests to allow back into his life an irresponsible and uncaring guy who simply happens to be he reluctant biodad. You don't at all know what his intentions are, or how he will behave - his previous behavious while far from infallible is the best guide you have available as to how he will continue to behave. More realistically, go to Maintenance Court and arrange for him to be required to pay full reasonable maintenance for the child. If he balks at this, you wopuld have further clear evidence of the shallowness of his feelings for both of you
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