Our expert says:
Its so important in life not to enter situations in which you feel someone else's opinion or permission is needed in order for you to feel happy and competent and pleased with yourself.
If your husband is abusive or just unpleasant and unloving, and refuses marriage counselling to try to get things rght, its reasonable for you to consider divorce ( consulting a lawyer to be sure of your rights ) - but not cheating, which will bother you without satisfying what you need. After separation and divorce of course you're free to form a new relationship.
If your husband refuses to contemplate or move twards anything but a loveless marriage, what have you to lose by divorce ? What would you be saving by staying ?
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