Our expert says:
Women tend to mature earlier than men, especially emotionally. A guy who still needs to run off with his pals and get drunk and reel home in the early hours is still a school-boy emotionally, and hasn't grown up enough t form any significant emotional relationship.
And yes, most people remember their first love, and their early experiences, often remembering them as much sweeter and better than they actually were at the time. And as Echelle says, in that first great romance, you have no comparisons, and may over-estimate it, getting it into perspective after later experiences in life.
But it's important to let go of any ex, asthe greater the extent of your continuing emotional investment in them, the less you are able to invest in your current relationship, placing it at risk. It's like selling your house and moving into a new one, but insisting on continuing to pay the bond repayments on the first housem, even though it now belongs to someone else.
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