Our expert says:
Are you sure that he is loosing his erection due to your being too wet? I'm just thinking that many menare really excited by their partners responses/reactions and so if you don't like sex (as you have said) or or doing it just for his benefit, it could be that he is picking up on that... It may be worth exploring these options, either by yourselves or with a professional, if you suspect that the frustration is more than it seems
Here are some options to try to reduce lubrication: if you are premenopausal (which at 30 you are!) and have no contra-indications then you could try an oral or injectable contraceptive because one of their side effects is dry vagina; if the lubrication is recent and excessive compared to previous, it is worth having a medical examination; decongestants like pseudo ephedrine can also help; otherwise you could try using the female condom -- or settle for the towel!
Claire - SASHA (www.sexualhealth.co.za)
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