Our expert says:
People should be very cautious about the argument that "that's just the way I am" as an excuse for not changing. If someone said :" Sorry for the inconvenience, but I'm a serial killer --- that's just the way I am --- and when will your family be arriving home ? " we might not quite accept that as a convincing excuse.
Sounds like whatever the reasons for your bf speeding through the rest of his life, in sex he may well have premature ejaculation. Fortunatelty, with behaviour therapy / CBT, this can usually be fairly easily remedied. Sex isn't a race in which the prizes go to the first one to finish.
He seems too ready wih excuses for no hanging --- surely successful life is about changing what needs to be changed ? He is becoming an expert in selfish sex, which is not admirable. Yes indeed this can be changed --- and then not only would you enjoy it more, but so would he. Get thee to a psychologist !
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