Posted by: Jojo | 2004/01/22

To Soul RE: At my wits end!!

Thank you for the advice. I have tried your first piece of advice numerous times and it doesn't work. I think that he needs the boot, I just need to get details on getting maintenance from him.
God alone knows how he is going to pay, but that is his problem!



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Posted by: Soul | 2004/01/22


One thing I do know about maintenance is that if the father of the child is unable to pay maintenance the responsibility of paying falls on his parents. Ok I know that may seem unfair to you but they will presure him into getting off his butt and getting a job. The maintenance is very hard on the men but in this case he needs a bit of tough love you can claim all the money you've spent on your pregnancy untill now (back pay).
Go see a maintenance officer and tell him your situation they are very helpful their concern is for your child.

I'm here if you ever want to talk.
Take Care

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