Our expert says:
Sorry to hear of this, Rvm --- bad things do happen to good people ( it's the bad people who often seem to evade difficulties!) I don't understand why on earth she would want you to meet the other guy, or why she would expect you to want to do so. Is she really THAT confused ? Hasn't she been "confused" for an awfully long time ? Ship-board romances are notorious for not lasting. IS it really the Nice GUy thing to go along and be cuddly ? WOuldn't it be wiser to respond to her saying that you don't see any good reason for meeting the guy, and won't do so. That you still have strong feelings for her and would like to keep the possibility of a resumption of the relationship open, but can't see how it would benefit you, or her, for you to meet with the Other Guy. There's something unwholesome going on here, and you may even, despite your feelings be better off without a woman with chronic Confusion, who can blithely be as hurtful and thoughtless as this.
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