Our expert says:
babe, sounds more hopeful than some similar situations, in that you have both tried to fix things. But that he continues to contact the harem you forgave him for, is unpromising. You need to work to clarify what's best for you and the children. You CAN live without him ( you do now ) and children are not damaged necessarily by a divorce. If he were here, I'd recommend marriage counselling, as he's away, at least personal counselling for you would enable you to clarify what you need
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