Our expert says:
He's an alcoholic, denying his problems, and a danger to himself and others on the roads. Stop forgiving and excusing him. He must go into rehab and then join AA and work on a long-term follow-up program to stay stopped. You don't have to "ask" him for permission to divorce him. There's no point in giving him "another chance" --- an alcoholic will accept and waste a million "last chances". See a lawyer so as to best protect your interests. I don't see any good reason for you to feel guilty at all --- HE is the source of the problem and chooses not to solve it.
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