Our expert says:
heri, have you thought of alternatives, like discussing with your husband how you would prefer him to satisfy you sexually, maybe suggesting that you both get involved in marriage counselling / sex therapy ? Whatever you feel is lacking in the sexual aspects of your marriage can be improved.
You already know that adultery is bad, but I'm surprised that you also seem to feel no alternative to this ? When you mention the risk of pregnancy, which could indeed be a very serious complication, this also means that you and this man are not practising safe sex, so there is also a serious risk that he might be HIV positive and infect with with HIV and then AIDS. Especially, this is a problem as you tell me he says he WANTS you to have his baby --- why ? TO further insult and embarass your husband ? To destroy your marriage ? And his ?
You know that adultery is adultery, and wrong, whether or not your partners find out. If you killed someone, without anybody finding out, wouldn't that still be murder ? And how do you imagine it is possible that your partners would never find out ? You can ceck at a clinic as to whether or not you are pregnant, and discuss that with the clinic staff. But don't you think you need to end this relationship now, and turn instead towards finding ways in which to improve your marriage ?
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