Posted by: Oak | 2009/02/20

To continue or not to continue

Hi CS,

I know that this is not a phycological question but i was hoping that you and the ppl can help me out.

I just got myself in a relationship with a person that already has a girlfriend, and yes he told me about her.
Things are going smooth, i mean it' s still new and we' re having a great time when we' re together. He tells me he likes me very much and that he wants to be around me all the time, i really do believe him there - - but i really feel guilty about this whole thing, mainly the fact that he' s got a girlfriend. I know i shouldn' t be even with him knowing he' s involved already and i hate myself for it.
To me it seems as though he told me about the girlfrind just so i can never expect more from him and stuff....I really don' t know how to get out of this, i know i shud have never entertained it when i heard about the girlfriend.

Please share your thoughts on this, i' d really appreciate it.

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Our expert says:
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If you knew he had a gf, why did you choose to get into a relationship with him ? Of course you should feel guilty about doing this to his gf. Just say no, and end it now --- it's really not that difficult to do

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Posted by: Wendy | 2009/02/20

Problem with these relationships is if he can do it to the first girlfrined what' s going to stop him doing it to you, his a cheat honey through and through, they are smooth talkers and lovers but will hurt you....take it from someone that has had that experience...get out before you get hurt....

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Posted by: Flowergirl | 2009/02/20

Get out asap as you are only going to get hurt.

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