Our expert says:
Fortunately, there is no such thing as "a man's mind", any mre than "a woman's mind". WHile each sex can show some similarities in some ways, the differences between us as individuals are always greater than those between us as genders. I doubt that there's anything rational in his nasty and rude behaviour. And of course you are not, fat, ugly, or anything else, because he chooses to say so. What you've done, as Q and Liza emphasize, is above all INCONVENIENT for him, disturbing his comfort, and maybe even embarrassing him. If he has any degree of sincerity in wahnting to think of the child and the relationship, maybe you should insist that he join you in FAMSA-style relationship / couple counselling FIRST, to see if things can be worked out compatibly. If not, stop taking his calls, and ignore him until he can be civilized and polite and communicate with your considerately.
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