Our expert says:
Remind him that you both need to learn to understand why a baby may be crying, and it needs a parent, not necessarily only a mother. Men often feel ham-handed and are scared they'll do something wrong. Fortunately, kids are far more resilient than guys think.
Its fair enough for him to want time to relax, but he needs to recognize that you also need time to relax. You BOTH work really hard. If he really wont accompany you on a stroll with the stroller (remind him that you love him so much, you want his heart to stay healthy with good exercise !) maybe suggest you look for one of those exercise machines where you can walk in one place. At the cost for one of those gadgets, he may prefer to go for a walk outside with you !
Maybe to some extent you're giving up, bu anticipating his negative response, so you stop asking him. Maybe there are more cunning and pleasant ways to ask him, and to pleasantly persist and not just acept all his evasions.
Also, mabe, remember Lysistrata, the ancient Greek woman whu stopped a wat by getting all the women to agree to provide no sex until the war stopped. Maybe suggest thatg much as you love him, this way you're far too tired to face having sex, so if he helps share the load and let you get more sleep, you'll be likely to become more interested in enjoying sex with him.
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