Our expert says:
I've noticed the plethora of nics. ( Nice word, plethora, and I don't get many chances to use it ) In some ways I appreciate your confession, but ridicule is not welcome here, and could lead to you being barred from the site. It sounds as though you are not using this site in the way which would be most helpful to you, OR to other readers, and you are making yourself FAR too vulnerable by allowing other people's remarks to shift your mood so greatly.
Maybe you've been getting increasingly frustrated at the role of Happy Happy Mommy, and enjoy exploring the dark side of yourself here --- which would be fine except that it hurts other people's feelings --- and many readers are as liable to becoming miserable after unkind words from you, as you are when others say something nasty.
SO, set a great example by taking your own advice, using the site in moderation, and moderately.
Echelle raises the very relevant point that if someone means it when they say they don't care what others think of them, they have no reason at all to change nics, which is more a way of trying to evade responsibility for your comments, than exploring different facets of your personality. It doesn't evade detection or identification --- we can do that behind the scenes, anyway, whichever nic you are using.
And Delene's point is brilliant --- whichever nic you use might fool some other readers, but you will still experience rejection of what you say, through any nic, as rejection.
Now I'm also waiting to find that Old Man you talk about, especially if he has a batch of Barbies to throw about. Generally, I find Barbecues too heavy to toss around. It's like the sign I saw in a store once, which read : "Shop Lifters --- must be awfully strong."
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