Our expert says:
This is difficult to respond to without knowing a lot more information. A simple (and perhaps simplistic) response would be that it could be down to the age you are at present (23) - many young adults are wanting to explore and have fun and not take things seriously. However, maybe it feels like more than that. In which case, and this is not to shift blame at all, but we all send messages without knowing it (e.g. the shy person is scared to interact so she folds her arms around her to feel safe and doesn't make much eye-contact with anyone, or is brief/curt in her interactions with others - this might look like stuck up, arrogant behaviour to others). So have a think what you 'send out there'. If this has come up three times, it's the beginning of a pattern that you have to take seriously. Ask trusted friends (female and male) what they see you sending out there...this could add to your understanding. Finally, if you feel used by having sex and then them leaving, don't have sex until you are happier that this relationship might last a while.
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