Posted by: moses | 2009/04/02

things to say when asking a girl out

i have a problem when ever i meet a beautifil girl.i cannot find any words o things to talk to her about when im with her.what do i have to say?

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Posted by: Pete | 2009/04/15

You get courses for social skills - tell me more (i.e. courses, not go see a shrink ...)

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Posted by: Kelly | 2009/04/02

Well just be yourself and speak about things you would normally to any other person.Theres no difference.
You could ask her questions about herself, how her day was, what her plans are for the weekend, her hobbies, anything you read in the paper, tv, a movie you watched well anything thats of interest to you.
If a girl likes you she wouldn' t care what you were speaking about believe me, she would just be gald that you are speaking to her.
If however she is not that into you then she wouldn' t bother keeping up the conversation at all but then again if she does keep the conversation going it doesn' t mean 100% thats she' s into you she might just want to be only friends.

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Posted by: Zul' man | 2009/04/02

Shela 101: The proven theory says do not approach someone when you feel less confident. You need to approach a person in a composed but jolly mood. Most women would appreciate a man that makes them laugh their lungs out than walking stature.

1st, you should noticed what it is that is beautiful about that person (leave out the tone of the skin) hair, shoes, colour coordination. These items are the ones that make women to spend time in the mirror. So, if you can’ t notice any of them on your first and second day, the chances of you noticing them in future are zero.

2nd, talk about yourself, who you are?, and how your life will be perfect if she can share joy, sadness, challenges with you. Remember, a woman will remember your words of promise like a scripture in the Bible. So, be honest!

3rd, find out who she is? Her past, present and most importantly her future. Remember, love is not a competition but a compliment to one another. So, take note of her accomplishment. That means, say less of negative but be optimistic and rational.

Classes will continue tomorrow, please bring in your assignment. Good afternoon!

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Posted by: masie | 2009/04/02

Well first of all when you ask her out be polite, once she says yes, ask her where she would like to go and what her interests are. once you are on your date, let her do the talking, ask simple questions about her (dont get personal). Once you are chatting away, you will see that it gets easier. NEVER sit there and talk about your ex, your past or just about yourself the whole evening. good luck moses!

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