Our expert says:
Sounds as though, unfortunately, you kept making the same mistake of trusting these guys, and letting the same thing happen to you - don't let it happen again.
The first guy got you pregnant then dumped you and left you with a child ( you dotn't mention him paying maintenance, as he should have done ), and married someone else - now, why on earth should you care if his marriage isn't going well ? He continues to use you, for sympathy and maybe sex, but nothing he's done is about loving you. Tell him to leave you alone and to solve his own marriage porbl;ems with his wife and a marriage counsellor, and refuse to see him or speak to him again.
The second guy you say did the same thing ? But you are still allowing him to bother you with gossipping and bragging about his love life, and when you say "but I won't entertain him" it sounds as though he is also at least trying to have sex with you as well. Stop taking his calls.
The 3rd one is spinning that old story about a divorce and he needs your comfort and sympathy - nonsense. Agai8n, tell him to leave you alone and sort out his own problems.
Why don't you have any respect for yourself ? Its obvious these guys don't have any respect for you. THey are using you and you are allowing it.
So long as you continue to allow them to use you, they will.
Tell hem all to buzz off and threaten to get a restraining order from court to forbid them from contacting you in any way, or go to jail.
THen see a counsellor to work on your self-respect, and to set yourself free to have a genuine relationship with someone who respects you and doesn't just see you as a free source of sex and cuddles when they're feeling bad.
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