Our expert says:
it's very understandable that you find these things hurtful. If your son hears any bad things from them first, it'll occur to him that you have not ben saying bad things about them ; if you keep a good relationship with him, he should feel free to discuss it with you, and ask for your side of things. And Mona has it right --- saying bad things can rebound ; but you have no need to say good things, specially not to cover up for his shortcomings.
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