Our expert says:
Blue, don't blame yourself for your normal and natural feelings. He gave you many reasons not to love him. Some men are excellent at work, and lousy in their family relationships. Your feelings, though, are based on the relationship he had with you, not the others, and the ways in which he hurt you. You were kind to him towards the end, and that was a very loving thing you did, and you can feel proud of yourself and content that you were gracious towards him, even if he didn't truly deserve it.
And now you can certainly continue and get over it, as you don't need him or anything he could do or say, in order to get over the problems he caused --- in counselling, you can still set yourself free. And that is something you need to do, and which he couldn't do.
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