Our expert says:
Sounds irresistable for life to go so smoothly, though it might become boring, and provide very few opportunities to learn important lessons. We can think we are prepared for all sort of hugely challenging experiences, but there's a limit in the extent to which we can prepare before we encounter these in real life.
And you raise a good point about the gap between what we usually tell our kids, and how we ourselves react. And Revenge is never a good reason --- the sort of people who might be a target for your revenge might actually not feel a thing, while the innocent suffer, instead.
Counselling offers us an ongoing way to pursue this sort of question more fruitfully and usefully,
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