Our expert says:
Sorry. "Hopelessly" in love is usuallt infatuation and not actual love. And though we have ( check the forum archives ) discussed age differences and how they're usually irrelevant to happy relationships, this one is truly extreme. This sounds very like someone with neurotic issues arising from childhood, wanting a father-figure. If you have children by him, are you happy that they are unlikely to have a father by the time they're grown up ?
I really think yoju need to see a counsellor to examine and understand these feelings, and take your time to decide what's best to do about them.
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