Our expert says:
Thanks for your encouragement.
The anger is unlikely to get better if she doesnt work with a counsellor / psychotherapist, especially as it has, apparently, lasted so long. But it would only help if she recognized the problem and sincerely wanted to change. IS there any option of your moving so as no to live with her ?
As maria suggests, maybe there is someone else, family or friend, whose sugestion she would take seriously ? One's children's opinions may be wise and correct, but parents often don't take these seriously enough.
And, as she also suggests, maybe Mom would be more receptive to the idea of joining you in joint counselling, aimed at remedying that problems she may feel she has with you ( while, of course, it would be able to deal with all the problems you notice with her, as well )
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