Our expert says:
If the mother gave the child misinformation and did not let her father have normal access to her, that is most unfortunate. And the mother has a duty to explain clearly and repeatedly to the child that this is her biological father and loves her, and to encourage her to appreciate the time she spends with him. I'm puzzled about why he is allowed so litle time --- that sounds really odd. I don't see anything to be gained by the mother delaying telling the child the truth. That won't make her new husband, the stepfather, any the less her social father, and someone she may well call Daddy.
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.