Our expert says:
Maybe reforming the education system is indeed a task for giants --- but first one would have to remove the pygmies in the Department ! As for second son, maybe seeing a child psychologist woul;d help to discover why this Sudden outbreak of misbehaviour --- where its a change rather than ordinary for the kid, I always wonder whether something else has happened to cause ths --- whether bullying, bad influences, or whatever. Comparing the kids is natural ; what bothers them is when you're as it were measuring them up against each other : "Your BROTHER wouldn;t do that !" rather than assessing how good they are at being themselves, instead of how well they imitate someone else.
Each seems to need a different approach, but they're all seeking attention, in their different ways, and of course you have only so much attention to spare. Have you tried giving any of them responsibilities for helping with each other ?
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