Our expert says:
Sounds like a problem drinker. And 8 to 10 hours of noisy shouting, in an episode, is more than the usual drunk. As is phoning people to accuse them of imagined offenses. Most alcoholics are quite nice when sober --- that's not enough toe xcuse their horrible behaviour when drunk. And as he refuses to go for help, and gets abusive to you, he's a really bad choice of partner. He is incredibly unlikely to change for the better. It is NOT likely to be related to anything that happened to him in the past, and even if it were, that would be irrelevant --- he is still responsible for how he behaves NOW, whatever might have happened in the past. He could, from the sound of it, also be accumulateing brain and other physical damage from his long-term excessive drinking. If he refuses to try to save himself, you should concentrate on saving yourself
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