Posted by: Kimmi | 2012/11/19

Taking too long

My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We are in our twenties and have a good sexual relationship. Over the last year or so it has been getting more and more difficult for him to finish. It gets to the point where it becomes less fun and more of a job and we end up stopping and going to bed annoyed. Is there anything we can do to make him orgasm quicker?

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The reasons for this need to be better understood - I recommend he sees someone for an assessment. The fact that it is taking longer means that he was ok earlier in your why is this happening now, I wonder. I recommend a physical examination to ensure all is okay physically and then assessment by a sex therapist. You can locate one via your GP or via the South African Sexual health Association (SASHA). For further information please consult SASHA’s website at For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to

Claire - SASHA

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Posted by: soso | 2012/11/28

what about geminis ?

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Posted by: steve | 2012/11/25

Funny you should ask .......

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Posted by: Maximus | 2012/11/21

Is he a Gemini star sign?

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Posted by: Kimmi | 2012/11/20

He''s not on meds, and he never does does that. We do it about 2-3 times a week...

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Posted by: XXX | 2012/11/20

How often are you having sex and does he masturbate a lot ! Both these can affect how long he will last before orgsam.
Certain meds can also cause this,maybe check on this.

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