Our expert says:
If he can't cope with life, let alone a relationship, without drink, drugs or both, he's a really poor bet as a long-term partner.
A temporary break doesn't necessarily solve anything. He needs to head for AA and rehab, and wait until he has been stable for some years,before trying any serious relationship.
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