Our expert says:
most people have sexual fantasies and these are all normal. you should feel free to acknowledge your husband's fantasy on your terms, such as maybe role-playing: maybe check into a hotel and he pretends to be a waitor and thus satisfy his desires. But at the very same token he needs to respect your wishes that you do not want to have a threesome, will not engage in an affair and may want to wear clothing that does not have such a low cleavage.
as a word of caution, you should have a blood-test to ensure that you may not be infected with an STI (most STI's do not have symptoms in women). If you are infected, you need to seek medical treatment as well as a psychologist to deal with the infidelity of your husband and find the correct solution to your relationship problem(s)
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