Our expert says:
There might be something going on between them, or there might not - colleagues often have very annoying in-jokes and make anyone else feel out of it. Wha they did was disrespecful, even if they didn't realize it. You must neither assume the worse, no assume the best. And only calm discussion with him, revealing how badly this made you feel, could resolve this.
Remember the value of talking about " how that situation made yo0u feel", which is less directly accuaing him, rather than adopting the "you did this and hurt me" description of the same events.
I think Wise Owl may alse be a bit bitter in assuming the fault lies entirely in your husband, when sadly some divorced women do indeed run wild and careless of hurt caused to other women.
Marriage counselling, anyone ?
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