Our expert says:
Of course this is a very difficult event to adjust to, and grief is hard work. Accept the support of your bf, as this will help both you and him, and don't allow yourself to feel guilty because he may tend to hide his emotions from you -- a great many men have been taught to hide emotions and not to seek comfort for them, so if he is doing so it is probably, in good part not about you, and to then extent that it is, it is an act of kindness and love, which you can accept. Indeed, by accepting his support --- maybe even seeing a counsellor together --- you may be best able indirectly to help him deal with his own emotions about this
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