Our expert says:
Telling you that he will change, without doing anything that could bring about that change, is of course nothing at all. And if he has sex with you when you are asleep or unwilling, that is marital rape. And it's obscene for him to joke about it --- you could indeed report him AND lay criminal charges against him. This is abuse, and you should discuss it with POWA. Discuss with them your options in terms of safely getting away from this man and getting a court order forbidding him from any further contact with you. Don't allow this abuse to make you feel so hopeless --- take care of yourself, and let the abuser find what its like without a resident victim
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