Our expert says:
Some times when we give advice, we empower the person to just keep on looking for attention, and sympathy. The best way to give advice is to be honest! Tell your friend that she must look at her own actions and that she must change her own behaviour and then her problems will deminish. Obviously, with emphathy. Don't by nasty!! just truthful.
Otherwise, if you don't feel comfortable to be so honest. Tell her that your advice is not changing her situation and that she must seek professional advice.
Good luck future shrink'i
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