Our expert says:
Maybe a useful question is : has she always been smothering, demanding, possessive, jealous and suspicious ? Or is this a recent change in her ? If a recent change, the next question would be --- what else has changed to make her become so lacking in self-confidence and insecure about the relationship ? The mere fact that you may have spoken on the phone to your ex isn't enough of an exlanation for that.
If she has always been like this, then you'd need o wodner whether in the long-term such a relationship is viable. Speak to her in a calm setting about how the way she is being over-suspicious and over-demanding feels smothering is damagingn the relationship and making it hard to remain in love with her. There's a difference between saying : you are smothering me ( and she'll say : No, I'm not ) and saying : The way you are behaving ( with some practical examples ) is making me feel smothered.
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