Our expert says:
He's behaving like a louse. It's sad that you have apparently only discovered his true colours after some months of marriage, and while pregnant ; but if he is being so uncaring, what matters is the wellbring of you and the baby, not him.
If he walks off with your cellphone, report it stolen and have its calls blocked, at least to Her phone number --- what cheek, to expect you to pay for him to call his mistress ! And dont contribute a single cent to his expenses outside of your home, for whatever time you choose to allow him to stay there. If you are carrying all the expenses, then he may as well move out. He seems to want to best of both worlds, to live at your place, and have the other lady on the side --- and from the sound of it, she doesn't like that idea much, either. He deserves neither of you, nor any other woman until he learns to grow up and treat other people with respect.
You deserve the support of a counsellor, to help you deal directly with your emotional problems here ; and you need legal advice ( check for free legal advice at a University Law Clinic or through the Law Society ; or from the Family Advocate ) to be sure you protect your rights, and that of the baby, from him.
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