Our expert says:
TALKING about what upsets you is fine ; FIGHTING about it doesn't help much, does it ? Do these really have to be such episodes of high drama ? OK, he experiences your attempts to raise these topics as picking a fight --- maybe something in your manner or choice of words encourages him to think this ? COuld you pleasantly persuade him to join you for a couple of sessions of couples / relationship counselling ? Tell him you want to work with him to avoid such fights, and to learn better ways to discuss your wories with him, without upsetting him so much
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