Our expert says:
Cocaine addictio is mainly psychological and ought not to be difficult to get free from, so long as you both see and work with an appropriately expert shrink, and change your lifestyle and friends / social activities, so as to avoid associations with the drug. It is a drug that does nobody any good, ever --- but it is especially unwise to take if one has a bipolar disorder, or to combine with medication of most kinds, including antidepressants.
You are right to recognize also her far greater risk for having been follish enough to center her entire life on coke and to allow herself to recognize no other pleasures ; and your comparatively stronger position for having the good sense to maintain other activities and pleasures.
You need to persuade her to face the fact that most of the problems in her life are due to her drug addiction and her failure to develop other pleasures and healthy activities ; the drug interfering with her ability to cope with whatever problems are occurring. She shouldn't expect you to do so much caring for her, when she isn't bothering to properly care for herself. She is being unreasonably demanding in what she expects from you, and seems to expect nothing from herself.
You will be unable to help her until she accepts that she needs professional help and to collaborate fully with such help. I agree with Carli --- she is subjecting you to emotional blackmail ; and you should not risk your own progress and work towards good health, to get into situations where she can drag you down wih her. She has to accept her own responnsibility for her own bad choices, and to recignize the potential for getting things right if she'll work with the right help
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