Our expert says:
I hear that you are distressed, but its not really clear from your message exactly what is upsetting you. That your husband has a long penis is not generally considered to be a problem. Apparently he feels uncomfortable about this ; if so, this is unusual, because while many men worry that their penis is too small or not long enough, very few worry that theirs is too big. I don't quite get what you are saying about the lotion --- is he specially putting some kind of lotion on it ? Or is this just the usual putting on of body lotion, but it gives you an opportunity to see him naked ? Do you think there is something sinister about him wearing shorts rather than underpants ? Isn't it maybe just that he finds shorts more comfortable, as many men do ?
Or is your real concern that he is SHY, and doesn't want you to see him naked, and you want him to change in this respect ? Its fine that you feel comfortable to be naked in front of your husband, but is it necessary that he should feel the sam,e way about undressing or bathing in front of you ?
If you want to comment further, or to clarify your question, please do so in a new question, as i don't see the questions I have already answered or responded to.
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