Our expert says:
let me sand back, to avoid the escaping high-pressure steam !
Don't try to take too much responsibility for your bf's decisions, choices and actions. He's a big boy now, and old enough to know that his dissertation will require hard work ; and not to frittle away his time on playing around. He shouldn't delay his qualification and earning, assuming that you will carry part of the financial burden of the relationship, and his parents the rest. He will not be helped by you taking over the responsibilities that must be his. Maybe when you are together, you can talk with feeling about the difficulties you found with regard to research / dissertations, and sound him out about why he's getting stuck. Maybe he doesn't feel capable of it, and he's too scared to admit it or to ask for help ?
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