Our expert says:
Hi Carol, thanks for the update. Interesting, isn't it, how the "have to" about work is actually functional ? YOu are a productive and inherently busy person, but maybe in a situation in which it is harder to be productive in the ways you are used to being. Maybe at present the main obstacle is being a bit disorganized --- the image that comes to me is the old AA Milne poem about the sailor washed up on a desert island who lay on the beach making plans. And for everything he thought of as essential to do, there seemed to be something else that would have to be done first --- but before that, yet something else. And he was found on the beach, months later, still planning his first move.
So one needs to list the leading possibilities for your activities, and see if there is any logical ground for selecting 1, 2, or 3 as priorities. If there's no good basis for selecting these, then presumably even a random selection would do as well. Then one gets started, rather than having one's wheels spining in the sand forever.
Congratulations to hubs for surprising everyone ( maybe himself as well ) for becoming so effective. Maybe in some way his relative independence here has enabled him to regain initiatinve and drive ?
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