Our expert says:
This is outrageous, and your husband has no right to allow this lazy lout to take over and control YOUR home and you and your child. Take him ( the husband ) to urgent mariage counselling, and together work out quickly a firm set of house rules which the lazy boy MUST keep to, or move out. And he must not be allowed to lock ANY rooms, or indeed to use any shared rooms unles she washes refularly, and not to control the TV. He can watch what you and your son want, or watch nothing. Take good legal advice to protect your belongings. Sounds like the boy could well be on drugs, and his father is stupid to give him enough allowance to pay for a drug habit. And at that age especially, an allowance ought to be earned by doing chores around the home.
Insist that the boy go back to the inloaws, and make it clear to your husband that unless this system comes under control, he can be the next one to leave your house.
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