Our expert says:
Don't allow other people the privilege of driving you crazy. hey can only do so with your consent and assistance, so don't allow it.
leased to hear you otherwise had a good Christmas, especiall as this time of year often inflames family issues and conflicts.
However, I think we have discussed this very issue before - clearly this girl is a spoiled brat who is being abusively spoiled by a very foolish parent in ways that will harm her quite apart from upsetting you. She probably enjoys the power to upset you whjich this situation gives her.
If cousins come to you asking for clothes, tell them to ask her, as she already has too many, and to ask the silly man who wastes money on her to share it rather with people who deserve and need it more.
It makes sense to consider separating your finances, so at least he can't waste your money on the spoiled brat. But this needs mutual agreement so that you also fairly share the expenses.
And as I think I said before, insist that he joins you in marriage counselling to sort out these shared problems.
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