Our expert says:
One needs to be cautious on entering a relationship with someone very newly divorced, as they are likely to have a lot of unfinished business they still need to work through before being emotionally free for a genuine new relationship rather than a sort of replay of the previous one. This is illustrated in him apparently carrying over into his relationship with you the suspicions that were appropriate in his previous relationship with a cheater.
And in ANY couple, there needs to be free communication and mutually agreed, shared disciplinary rules and consequences for the children.
If the ex is genuinely stalking you, you could apply for a court order forbidding her to do this. Privacy setting should be routine anyway, and people who choose to indulge in Facebook need to be aware of the risks they open themselves up to by doing so
Naria is right. Counselling, individually and togather should be done before moving into marriage
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