Our expert says:
Discuss this with your fiancee, and suggest some pre-marital counselling sessions with a good family counsellor, to work on such issues. Sometimes the differences between a couple are a matter of taste and tolerance. But where it concerns a lack of discipline and children not gaining basic skills, its worth working on a joint approach for everyone's sake.
Sometimes after a divorce, the parent gainin custody experiences guilt, and manipulation by the kids, as well as competition from the non-cusodial parent, too.
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