Our expert says:
Guys, it is TERRIBLY difficult for me to handle dozens of very very long messages, especially when they all pile up on a monday --- at least try to spread them through the week, and edit them to render them more brief and to the point. A long discussion with all the details belongs in a paid session with your own personal shrink.
Why is your life still tied up with your children ? Don't you long since deserve to have your own independent life, with uyour own friends and satisfaction. ? Your new partner is YOUR business, not theirs. Relationships are not a democracy in which everyone is entitled to a vote. And in your house it is ONLY your own rules that count, and if they can't accept thet, then they don't get invited to visit. And stop funding them --- that's not up to you.
Stop buying their gifts for him, too. let them love you for who you are, not for what you pay
If your daughter really needs you, then she must treat you with proper respect, or do without your support.
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