Our expert says:
For Pete's sake, if you nhave ANY idea of marrying this guy, your son needs to know who he is, what sort of relationship you have, and to have LOTS of time to get to know and like him. Why on earth try to keep this a secret for so long ? I agree with RMC and Maria. DO things together. If the boy is in boarding school, all the more reason to get him able to know the guy asap, and on every opportunity that arises. The degree of jealousy is normal enough, but will be exaggerated by the feeling that something underhand is going on, rather than by openness. And emphasize that he will always be your son and always be loved as much.
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