Our expert says:
Exes ought not to get involved in helping their exes deal with THEIR new Exes ! I agree with lulu, you are not over-reacting --- HE is ! This other woman can't have no family and friends on earth other than him --- there is no need for him to become so closely involved with her again. He has to remember that he is married, and is ignoring your feelings, and his own duties. Work hard to get him to join you in marriage counselling to work through all these issues. You both need to share counselling --- it is not you alone who has a problem, while he is indulging in this White Knight on a Horse Riding to the Rescue of the Fair Damsel in Distress fantasy.
SHE fouled up her recent relationship, not him, and it is her task to deal with it, without dragging him back into her life. There were good reasons why their relationship ended before. And it needs to stay ended. She is manipulating him, and he is enjoying being manipulated.
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