Our expert says:
Well, for a start, his cold reaction makes it very clear that you were right to end the relationship and that you're really lucky to be rid of him. If she is indeed flirting with this seedy man, it is her who is being hurt and risking greater hurt, and you should pity her rather than yourself. Remind yourself that you feel heart-broken, not from loss of him, but from loss of your false belief that he was worth loving.
And what is going on between you and her, that she eagerly tells you about her affair ( she knows you know she is married - does she know that you had an affair with him ? ) Make sure she knows what happend with you and why you felt it was necessary to break up with him,and the risks she is running.
Then thank your lucky stars that you are free of such a rat, and move on with your life - you know you're worth so much more than him
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